Sintija iesaistās bīstamās spēlītēs ar pakistānieti (210)

Iepazīstoties ar Sintijas un Shahid saraksti, kas publicēta tālāk rakstā, biedrības «Patvērums «Drošā māja«» vadītāja Sandra Zalcmane portālam TVNET norādīja, ka tā ļoti skaidri parāda puiša nodomus.

Ja meitene būtu lētticīgāka, droši vien arī uzķertos uz Pakistānas pilsoņa (ja tā ir patiesība) izmestā āķa.

Sintija šajā sarakstē ir spēlējusies ar Shahid kā kaķis ar peli,

jo noteikti ir dzirdējusi gan par fiktīvām laulībām, gan par vervēšanas mehānismu. Tas ļāva iegūt no puiša daudz informācijas par viņa patiesajiem mērķiem un parādīt puiša īsto dabu tikai dažu dienu laikā.

Piespiež mainīt ēšanas un apģērba stilu

Diemžēl, redzot Sintijas tiešos jautājumus, vīrietis pat sarakstē kļūst neiecietīgs, kas apliecina vairāku cilvēku tirdzniecības upuru - piespiedu laulību upuru teikto, ka aplidošana un uzmanības apliecinājumi ilgst tikai līdz brīdim, kamēr laulības tiek noslēgtas. Pēc tam sākas vardarbība, liegta saziņa ar tuviniekiem, piespiešana mainīt ģērbšanās stilu, ēšanas paradumus u.c.

Neskatoties uz Sintijas tiešo atbildi, ka viņa ar svešiem cilvēkiem nekontaktēsies, Shahid tomēr neatmeta cerības, ka viņš spēs pārliecināt meiteni par pretējo, un turpināja saraksti.

Tas norāda uz savu vēlmju uzspiešanu citam un nerēķināšanos ar meitenes prasībām.

Lai bezmērķīgās sarunās netērētu laiku, lieki neuztrauktu ne sevi, ne tuvos cilvēkus, ieteiktu nesākt saraksti ar nepazīstamiem cilvēkiem, jo vēlme sasniegt savu mērķi (Shahid mērķis) liek manipulēt ar cita jūtām (Sintijas uzrunāšana). Un ne vienmēr mēs esam tik nelokāmi savos uzskatos.

Var sodīt fiktīvo laulību organizētājus

Biedrības pārstāve arī pavēstīja - lai mazinātu piespiedu laulības, ar 2013.gada 1.aprīli Krimināllikumā ir veikti grozījumi 285.2. pantā par ļaunprātīgu nodrošināšanu ar iespēju likumīgi iegūt tiesības uzturēties Latvijas Republikā, citā Eiropas Savienības dalībvalstī, Eiropas Ekonomikas zonas valstī vai Šveices Konfederācijā. Šī norma paredz sodīt visas fiktīvo laulību organizēšanas ķēdē iesaistītās personas, īpaši vervētājus, jo fiktīvo laulību organizētāji parasti atrodas ārvalstīs.

Fragments no Sintijas un Shahid sarakstes

Izvērstāka Sintijas un Shahid sarakste (nerediģēta)

Sintija
Es tevi nepazistu, tadel neraksti man ludzu
31.05.13.

Shahid
Es esmu no Pakistānas, es esmu ieinteresēts, draudzība, man ir uzņēmums Latvijā, es nāku drīz latvijā
01.06.13.

Sintija
Skaidrs
01.06.13.

Sintija
un ko tev vajag no manis?
01.06.13.

Shahid

Es atrast vienu meiteni laulības Latvijā, es esmu ieinteresēts ar jums, jūs interesē padarīt ģimeni,

es gaidu Jūsu atbildi
03:36:39

Sintija
I'm interested in family but not with a person i don't know.
04:53:14

Shahid
I really like you
04:54:45
i want make family with you
please you think about this

Sintija
Haha
04:55:48
I have a boyfriend
But for latvia you are not smart so why would a pretty girl like me would marry a guy like you?!
And pakistan is 3rd worlds country with different mentality, i would rather get married with guy from norway or sweden...

Shahid
I really interested with you.
04:59:32
can you find good girl for me,
I am company owner in Lativa

Sintija
So what is the difference if you own a company in latvia?
05:09:58
Anybody can buy an empty company for 100 lats
And if don't know where to buy then need 3000€
So easy
Not impressive at all

Shahid
oh
05:20:42
you have good knowlage
i really like
i just buy company in 1000 euro. and chamber of commerce membership 200 euro

Sintija
So you lost money already haha
05:24:18
So it means you had no 3000€ to open a company in proper way

Shahid
I have complete documents
05:27:19
and full paid capital share 2000 lvl

Sintija
No doubts about that
05:27:37
So why did you have to buy it for 1000€ ???
If you had capital of 2000lvl?
Do you have a bookkeeper?

Shahid
bookkeepr mean?
08:18:21
please exlpain about this
sintija, what do you do ?
i need your help.
i have fresh company register,
please tell me all
about company register

Sintija
You need a bookkeeper
08:32:13
Accountant
You need a official address
And at least 1 employee
Depends what you do with this company
But you must do everything threw bank so you have records for tax office
Every year till 1st of may you must handle a balance sheet to tax office otherwise you can have a fine of 400lats etc

Shahid
can you work with me?
11:41:11
i give to you offer.

Sintija
to work for you? why?
11:41:36

Shahid
I need one good girl for working in company,
11:41:59
i don't now about lativa rules

Sintija
i'm not a lawyer
11:43:45

Shahid
ok,
11:43:55
dear, we can friendship,
i need always your advice and help.
can you do my help ... as friend

Sintija
ok
11:44:23

Shahid
ok,
11:44:28
please give me skype.
i will add to you

Sintija
no
11:44:40
can write here

Shahid
i think you don't trust complete on me,
11:44:58

Sintija
i am writhing assey now
11:45:11

Shahid

I find one girl for marrige, then after marriage i can get resident permit

11:45:44

can you marry me,
?

Sintija
wait i write assey for my university
11:50:48
i study in medical university

Shahid
ok,
11:51:31
but how you get knowledge for company registration and documents

Sintija
i studiet at school
11:52:25

Shahid
ok,
11:53:03
please you tell me about marriage
can you find girl...
please say to any friend that help me,

Sintija
no
11:53:35
its horrible

Shahid
why
11:53:41
If girl will agree for always live with me, then i will live always with her

Sintija
its not pakistan here
11:54:34
nobody will want to marry you for documents... nobody
and you are muslim, you don't eat pork, we eat all

Shahid
yes, that is true, i can't eat pork
11:58:02
but i like latvian girl

Sintija
then find one
12:00:01

Shahid
please you fine for me
12:02:26
i don't know any girl who speak english

Sintija
they all do
12:03:10
you speak latvian so no problem

Shahid
i don't know latvian
12:03:33

Sintija
but you spoke before
12:04:20

Shahid
I just google tranalte
12:04:55
i don't know
please dear, help me,
i need your help
in latvia 60 girls are divorced,
please you find any woman... or girl

Sintija
i study, i have no time for it
12:06:56
i must work
i have also son

Shahid
no problem,
12:12:48
i don't have any problem with child
You are nice,
could you send picture of baby

Sintija
why?????
12:14:21

Shahid
have you husband?
12:15:38

Sintija
i have boyfriend
12:18:49
he is also a medical student
i'm not married

Shahid
without marriage you have son?
12:19:30

Sintija
yes
12:20:41

Shahid
very stupid think
12:21:04

Sintija
this is not Pakistan
12:21:17

Shahid
i know, but here is not good,
12:21:27

Sintija
here we don't get married easely
12:21:28

Shahid
I know ,
12:21:30

Sintija
that's how we live i'm happy
12:21:50

Shahid
mean, each girl want sex there, then child without marriage
12:22:32

Sintija
we date several moths before sex
12:23:15

Shahid
ok,
12:24:11

Sintija
we are no cheap girls here. what you think
12:24:38

Shahid
OK,
12:24:44

i DON'T WANT BUY ANY STUPID GIRL. I NEED GOOD GIRL

Sintija
so find
12:25:13

Shahid
THERE ARE SOME BAD, BUT NOT ALL
12:25:16
I WILL FIND MUST,
YOUR THINK IS VERY BAD AND STUPID,
SORRY, TO SAY, YOU ARE NOT GOOD GIRL .. BUT IN LATVIA ARE MANY GOOD GIRLS WHO WANT MAKE FAMILY AN CHILD AFTER MARRIGAE

Sintija
if you need only papers then go back to pakistan... its not fair to abuse latvian girls
12:26:01
i'm good girl, well educated

Shahid
i don't want any frad with any girl
12:26:27
I will marriage then live always with wife,

Sintija
respectable in our socity
12:26:38

Sintija
doctors in pakistan are not respected?
12:32:03

Shahid
sorry, i don't wnt talk with you. please leave me alone
12:32:32
you say very bad words, and very bad think ...
i don't like your words,
be happy .. and leave me
bye

Sintija
i will report you to police for looking for marriage for documents
12:40:04

Shahid
no problem,
12:40:28
I know all law of marrige,

Sintija
you know all law about marriage but have no idea about company law and system, your profile on facebook has lots of grammar mistakes...
12:51:17